tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5105967228437010361.post1922468392603819..comments2024-03-20T10:09:06.857-07:00Comments on Bra Badges: I Don't CareAliciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04004323785009200338noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5105967228437010361.post-36945354843244062352013-01-03T11:00:47.944-08:002013-01-03T11:00:47.944-08:00There is something significant in this. I detecte...There is something significant in this. I detected the same sort of attitude in my wife not long before my big breakthrough. Her words to me were, " I'm going to leave it between you and the Lord". She quit trying to fix me. She would still confront me, but more gently. Now we're learning incredible new things about each other!Dan https://www.blogger.com/profile/15369849116048279314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5105967228437010361.post-20415193446652404362012-12-28T15:19:40.592-08:002012-12-28T15:19:40.592-08:00Oh it's definitely a combo of the last two.
...Oh it's definitely a combo of the last two. <br />There's been nights where the baby and I fall asleep on the couch -that leaves my husband alone in his room. In the past, that would really bother me. I would lay awake and WONDER if he WAS looking or WASN'T looking. But the past month, I just don't care if he is or not. I'm just too tired to worry about HIS stuff. I'm more than happy to hand it over to the Lord and hand it back to him. It definitely doesn't hurt me the way it used to, and it is so freeing. <br />That said: I still have my boundaries enforced and intact. His slipped has caused me to put a few more up, but it was so effortless to go to him and just say, "Hey, I can't do THIS or THAT right now. So I'm not going to."<br />Usually after we have a talk about his addiction, I stew over it. I think about what he has said and I analyze it. But the past month I really haven't. Minutes after we talk, I'm thinking about what to make for dinner. <br />I'm grateful to be in this place. <br />I don't know if it's a permanent step forward or not. I'll probably slip back later on. I don't know. All I know is I'm grateful for what it is, and I'm enjoying it today.<br />I know I said it once before, but it's just so FREEING. Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04004323785009200338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5105967228437010361.post-49614775646895623082012-12-28T06:53:52.536-08:002012-12-28T06:53:52.536-08:00The last month is pregnancy hell, but especially t...The last month is pregnancy hell, but especially the last week. Sometimes I think that women shouldn't be allowed to get THAT pregnant - it is TORTURE! I'm glad you are through that part of pregnancy and hopefully on your way to a great recovery and enjoying your beautiful baby!<br /><br />So, as I read this, I have been curious what you mean by "I don't care about the porn." Do you mean, "I don't care if he views porn so he might as well keep doing it." Or, do you mean, "It doesn't hurt me the way it used to when I find out he has been engaging in it, but I still want him to stop." Or does it mean, "I am so freakin' tired right now that I could care less what he does...for now." MMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13879982043254192074noreply@blogger.com